10 New Year Resolutions Every Parent Should Have

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Do you make a New Year’s Resolution every year and then falter when February 15th hits, and all the Valentine’s Day chocolate is 75% off? I know I do. I like to have goals that are measureable. Goals that I can make a list for and then a month or so down the road, I can see the progress that I have made. This year, I am making a new resolution.

I want to be a more mentally present and attentive parent.

There are many, many ways that I can do this, but I wanted to share my top 10 that I will be focusing on this year.oneI am way worse about this than I really like to admit.snapchatburritobuzz.jpg But if you sit back and think about it, how often do you actually turn your phone off? How often are you sitting on the floor with your kids and scrolling through Facebook? Or while they’re watching a movie and you’re reading through emails? Better yet, instead of playing, we are snap chatting with them? Gosh, I do this way too much. So much time is wasted playing with stupid filters. Technology is important this day and age, but we have to learn to limit ourselves as much as we limit our children. How often do you say “okay, that’s enough cartoons for the day” and five minutes later, you’re checking Facebook. Guilty!twoI plan on doing this outside of bedtime with my little ones. Not a book here and there, but sit down on the couch after dinner and deliberately focus on extended reading time. Reading is brain food. I hope that by enforcing consistent reading habits for my children that they will learn to love reading and their brains will flourish. You can read more about how important reading daily is here.three5c4135bdfa4c16b5878d7b7d04084dd1.jpgMy littles love being outside, as most children do. No matter how cold, wet, snowy, hot, muggy, or windy, I plan to get them outside to enjoy and experience the outdoors and encourage their love for nature, before they’re teenagers and I am begging them to go outside and do something!fourIhappiness-gratitude-jar.jpg want my children to have favorite memories and activities that we did during their childhood to carry on to their adult life. I am not sure what that will be for sure yet, but I know that we are going to start a “Happy Moments Jar,” planting flowers in the spring, and seeing fireworks in the summer.fiveSometimes we just get in our funks with life and forget that our tiny humans are watching us. Do more of what makes you happy and include your littles when doing it. Let them help you with your hobbies, involve them with things that you normally wouldn’t. As crazy as my OCD might be, I plan on letting my littles bang on the piano a little more when I am at it, having helpers when I bake more often, and maybe even letting them play with my yarn, that’s a big maybe. I wrote a post about choosing to be happy last year. Check it out here.sixNo matter what your religion or what you believe, it is important for children to have strong core values. Here at BurritoBuzz, we respect everyone and don’t really talk about our religions, but I encourage you to focus on what you believe in and what you want to instill into your children as they grow up.
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I have to admit, we have a pretty large family and our “village” for our children is pretty big, but my goal is to embrace it a little more and to lean on those who love us. Even more so to clean up oFind-Your-Tribe-Project-Bond-Laporte.pngur village. Focus on those who focus on us and try not to worry about things that I can’t control. I have learned that I can’t make family behave the way they should. Adulthood and parenthood made it easy for me to realize that friends come and go sometimes, and that’s okay.

eight.pngThis is a big thing for me. Marriage is not always easy and it is so important for our children to have a constant strong foundation to lean on. The only way that our relationship is going to grow, is to make each other a priority daily. It is fairly easy now. We are really happy and life is awesome, but life isn’t always awesome. I want to start having more regular dates and doing more things just daddy and I.nine.pngThe constant worry about the dishes, the laundry, cleaning the bathrooms, sweeping up the dog hair… it just never ends. The sooner that I give up and admit that fact, the happier I will be! I don’t want my kids to look back and say “yeah, mom always cleaned in her free time.” Uh, how about a reading a book or working on a craft? Or going for a walk? The chores aren’t going anywhere. Period.

il_fullxfull-229582580ten.jpgI mean really, just hop off of Facebook and Instagram for a hot minute and relax. Who cares when Johnny started walking or that your kid drinks mama’s milk and Sally’s kid drinks formula and cloth vs. disposable diapers. Fit and healthy vs. surviving on 2 hours of sleep. Top of the line baby gear vs.being a single parent with barely one income. Organic backyard farm raised vs. pop tarts and McDonalds. Working parent vs. Stay at home parent.facafd0804849d464c46d2c11eb8f2ea.jpg

Give it up. Being a parent is hard enough just from reading the pamphlets they send home with you from the hospital, much less if you are making a list in the back of your head about whatever everyone else is doing, what you think you should be doing. I do it, I’ll admit it. We all do it and we don’t even think about it. I’m taking a step back and focusing on how perfect our parenting style is and how my kids are thriving, smart, and healthy. That is all that matters in the end.

Happy New Year! I hope your goal is to focus on what you have and not what you need to do in the New Year!

– Amanda

 

 

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Last Minute Christmas Shopping. Ideas For All Ages.

last-minutI am usually the procrastinator. I like to try and get little things throughout the year for close family members, if I see things I think that they would like, but most years I wait till around the 20th to do the bulk of my shopping. So stupid. So so so STUPID, but I do it almost every single year. This year was different. I am not sure how or when I got it all tackled, but I have been done shopping for about a week now! It is seriously a fabulous feeling. I go to Target to get diapers and I am surrounded by frantic chaos and I am not phased, because I am not eagerly figuring out what else I need to get. Since I have a little bit of extra time I thought that I would compile a list of  ideas if you are struggling with deciding what to get a friend, their kids, your family, or whomever you weren’t handed a list a mile – long for!

I tried to make sure that these ideas where below $50 for budget’s sake. That doesn’t mean there aren’t A LOT of awesome gear on the market right now that is above that, but I know that most people have many people to shop for. Also, most links are for Amazon or a store that they are currently in stock at, for easy shipping and ease of shopping. Be sure to check out your local boutiques for some items also. This time of year shopping local really is helping your community’s friends and family.


KIDS

INFANT: 

Janod shape sorter. – Any shape sorter is a classic and awesome for little ones. janodshapesorter .jpg

pipSquigz sensory toys.pipsquigz1

Melissa & Doug K’s Kids Match and Build Soft Blocks Set61oghm4MqmL._SL1200_.jpg

AGES 1-3 BOY:

Xylo Roller by Janod.

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Fisher Price Mega Box.These are awesome for any age or gender but it’s always my go- to gift for younger kids. If you don’t get the one with a carrying bag, then I strongly suggest that you wrap it in a inexpensive plastic bin to save the parent’s sanity. 81rlkhendvl-_sl1500_

Oombee Cube for tactile exploration. Screenshot_2016-06-24_12.08.27.png

 

–  ANY gender…or age really…-   Magnatab doodle pad by kid O – My kiddos ADORE these! Magnatab-front---non-glowing-710-0x0x4800x3200_grande.jpg

AGES 1-3 GIRL:

VTech Touch and Swipe Baby Phone – What toddler doesn’t love a phone? I haven’t met one yet!71dzfwfsmxl-_sl1500_Melissa & Doug Jenna 12″ Doll Bundle81h0gs1wxil-_sl1500_

 VTech Go! Go! Smart Friends Twinkle the Magical UnicornThis thing is even more  ADORABLE in person and so much fun! 7143hFPBFnL._SL1500_.jpg

AGES 3-5 BOY:

Think & Learn Code-a-pillar by Fisher Price. This is an awesome way to keep little kids boys thinking and busy! 71eysXEDxuL._SL1132_.jpg

Little Tikes 3′ Trampoline81jiamxqfjl-_sl1500_

 Little Tikes Attach ‘n Play Basketball Set- This is the first over the door hoop that I have seen that can adjust for shorter children as well as taller. 81ak2fk5hml-_sl1500_

AGES 3-5 GIRL:

Play-Doh My Little Pony Rainbow Dash Style Salon Playset71wqmjtilql-_sl1500_

Enchanted Princess Palace  by VTech Go! Go! Smart Friends 71QdIXA7bzL._SL1500_.jpgSlice and Bake Wooden Cookie Play Food Set by Melissa & Doug 61nwpeyzrll-_sl1200_

AGES 5-7 BOY:

Osmo Coding Game- Teaches logic and problem solving skills

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AGES 5-7 GIRL:

Cleverkeet by Little Live Pets 81ociowenrl-_sl1500_ Furby Connect 91buZjiS9nL._SL1500_.jpg

My First Sewing Kit by ALEX Toys Craft 91py07rordl-_sl1500_

AGES 8-13 BOY:

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4M Crystal Growing Experiment 91ZWRgwjg-L._SL1500_.jpgNerf N-Strike Elite HyperFire Blaster 50697293.jpg

AGES 8-13 GIRL:

Easy-Bake Ultimate Oven Baking Star Edition Bonus Pack 48637847_alt06Pottery Cool Studio by Spin Master50517502_alt02Beginners Acoustic Guitar With Guitar Case, Strap, Tuner and Pick. c1dc3d4a-b4ae-428d-b2a2-f71f792256d5_1.a01353ec77e006cd32539beec103cb92.jpg

AGES 14 + BOY:

Helicopter Drone 71q4lj5gh2l-_sl1500_Mouthguard Challenge Game 51si5dlyl-_sx300_Follow Me Robot Kit by Elenco41skdbwxk-l-_sy445_

AGES 14+ GIRL:

All-Natural Soaps Science Kit by SmartLab Toy. 91sjmvddkxl-_sl1500_Karaoke Player by Singing Machine. 61ccbj04zhl-_sl1000_

 My Super Knot-A-Quilt by Alex toys. 10909094

*** With all age groups I encourage you to get books too! It’s always a great option and children can’t learn to love reading unless we teach them how ***


ADULTS

MALE YOUNG ADULT:

Philips Norelco BeardTrimmer Series 7200 with Vacuum. 15073719_alt02Madden NFL 16 (Xbox One)17397821Cordless Drill 14818202

FEMALE YOUNG ADULT :

Blanket Scarf by Steve Madden.blanket-scarves

Bluetooth Beanie with Wireless Microphone Dark Grey – Tenergy 51328146Daisy by Marc Jacobs Eau de Toilette Spray 14604411

MALE PARENT:

Car track  massage shirt. img_2237

 Customizable Engraved Wood Handle Steel Hammer716zxnvxdpl-_sl1500_.

 18PCS BBQ Grill Accessories Tool Set 81is7k3zil-_sl1500_

FEMALE PARENT :

Black Picture Frame Set (set of 7) 81ar2xx-xgl-_sx425_

Conair Waterfall Footbath 50943588_alt03Netflix gift card. – So momma can binge on whatever show she pleases without having to pay a dime.  content-mainimg.png

MALE GRANDPARENT :

Keep Calm and Papa Will Fix It T-Shirt 51wdk6-hdtl-_ux342_Willow Tree Grandfather71B8nuIRXEL._SL1500_.jpg

The Grandparent Gift Life Story Frame– Grandpa9151g3xt7l-_sx522_

FEMALE GRANDPARENT:

Family Tree Picture Frame 51mcpvr3fhl-_sx425_

 

 Grandchildren Date Print 51d7xyKM1cL.jpg

What I Love About Grandma Fill in the Love Journal by Knock Knock. 819mttjg4jl-_sl1500_

You should have more than enough ideas for you last minute shopping now!
Merry Christmas!
~Amanda

Gift Idea for the Parents!

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We write a lot about products for babies and children on this page, but sometimes us parents need cool things in our lives, too! Since college, I’ve gone through MANY travel coffee mugs, mostly unimpressed with each purchase. They don’t keep my coffee hot, spill, break, don’t hold up in the dishwasher… the list is endless.

Finally. I’ve finally found the holy grail of coffee cups.

I recently purchased a two-pack of Contingo travel mugs. (Two will run you right around $30.00.) They come in all sorts of colors and sizes, but they all have one thing in common: great user ratings. People are serious about their coffee, so you’d better believe they’re serious about how they store their coffee when on the go.

I work 25 hours at my job per week, run a small wedding photography business, and write and work for BurritoBuzz. I’m on the move, always. And while I’m trying to wean myself from drinking so much caffeine, I still need my morning cup of java. Most mornings are so chaotic that I’m lucky if I dried my hair fully, so I definitely need to be able to grab my coffee and go… and I need it to be a secure cup, because I’m often carrying my purse, a diaper bag, and a 10 month old. I don’t want coffee spilling all over my leased car (that’s the stuff nightmares are made of.)

This cup is great: It’s slim enough to fit anywhere, and still holds a decent amount of coffee. It stays warm. The lid screws on, and to drink you just push in on a button to open the spout (and you do this WITH your drinking hand, so it’s not a difficult design that you need two hands to utilize.)

Dishwasher safe. BPA free. Double-wall construction to reduce condensation. Love it, and I definitely recommend it to anyone, especially parents, that need their coffee to function.

-Katie